Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Think Out Loud [5] I have lipstick and I'm gonna use it!

Okay, so my mom has been on a mission since my divorce...a spruce up Robyn do or die sort of thing. It started with my winter coat, a blue tired zip up number. "You just look so cold in it," she'd say after telling me, "You have to get a new coat!" I'd look down, run my hands over the soft material, "It's not cold because there's enough room for me to wear two shirts and a sweater underneath." She'd laugh, stop laughing, then shake her head. I've had the coat since my oldest was 4. He's eleven now. This Christmas while we were already at the mall for something else, she gave me honest to goodness puppy dog eyes. "Mom, while we're here, why not stop in Sears and see the sales?" She bounced all the way to the store. I saw the coat I wanted in less than a minute. Tried it on. Fell in love. I'm sure she expected the whole mom/daughter shopping experience, but I do not like indecision.

Part two, which occurred in the same timeline with the coat, was operation "get rid of those damn glasses." So I had my glasses longer than my coat. They were pretty. I liked them. My mom shook her head and told me, "No way are you wearing those things another year!" New glasses...check! Christmas stocking-new lipstick (only lipstick). Makeup...check!

Now I'm armed with glasses I'm still not sure about, a coat that's awesome, but not a two T-shirt/sweater combination type of coat, and girly lipstick. Thing is, I'm still me. I'm past the stink eye part of post-divorce life; if a guy smiles at me, I don't immediately want to kick him. Progress. But I am no where near the flirting stage. I'm barely in the smiling back stage. I have a feeling my mom is growing restless and something new will be added to the list. Dresses? Shit.

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Sunday, April 14, 2013

Soul Bender Blog Tour!

Jaclyn at JC's Book Haven is hosting The Soul Bender Blog Tour. So very awesome of her! Please do stop by and check out her blog. She has a couple unique features like Sunday Cover Scramble and Sidekick Saturday. She's also featuring an indie writer series (by me!).

April 15th
Bookworm Brandee - Review, Top 10
PRUF Reads - Review
Aussie Bookworm - Reiew of Soul Walker (book 1)

April 16th
Forget the Housework, I'm Reading... - Review, Top 10
Sycho Faerie's Book Obsession - Review
Bookshelf - Review of Soul Walker (book 1)

April 17th
Rainbows and Books - Character Interview, Excerpt
JC's Book Haven - Review
Margay Leah Justice - Top 10 List
April 18th
My Favorite Escape - Excerpt
Donnie Darko Girl - Review
Bookshelf - Review

April 19th
WeaklingNo14's Wondrous Reviews - Review, Character Interview, Excerpt
Bookwyrming Thought - Top 10
Aussie Bookworm - Review

Don't forget to enter the rafflecopter for a fantastic $50.00 Amazon gift card giveaway and three chances to win your choice of Soul Walker or Soul Bender.

Saturday, April 13, 2013

Sidekick Saturday [12] GRUMPY!

Sidekick Saturday is a weekly bookish meme, hosted by Jaclyn at JC's Book Haven. There are many secondary characters that are as great as the primaries. In some cases, the sidekicks actually steal the show and you like them better than the heroine or hero. Maybe they didn't have enough page time for how great they were. Anyone can play along! Just do the following:
• Choose a sidekick *or someone other than the hero or heroine* that you would like to put in the spotlight that fits in this week's type
• Share a picture and information about the character
• Give the title and author of a book the character can be found in
• Please don't include too many spoilers when describing why the character is such a great sidekick
• Put your link in the Linky thing and comment

Today's sidekick type is GRUMPY. Jaclyn at JC's Book Haven chose Zee from Patricia Briggs' Mercy Thompson series. She is so right on with her pick. I love Zee like I love that one really grumpy grandma who considers Halls Cough Drops hard candy.

I choose Jerome from Richelle Mead's Georgina Kinkaid Succubus series. He's the local boss. He's not a happy go lucky guy. And he's a demon. Oh, oh, and he looks like John Cusack. DO NOT TELL HIM. He has this sort of bromance/rivalry with Carter, the most slovenly (hottest) angel ever. Jerome is more likely to flay you than pat you on the back. Goodness, and if he signs you up for the bowling league so he can beat the pants off a fellow demon, you'd better freaking bowl strikes!
John Cusack Headshot
(John Cusack [CC-BY-SA-3.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/3.0)], via Wikimedia Commons)

I posed this challenge to my mom and sister. My mom mentioned Kinsey Millhone from Sue Grafton's Alphabet mystery series. Kinsey isn't a side character, but I LOVE her attitude problem. One year during the holidays she was so pissed she grumbled the entire book. Her ex showed up just to make everything worse. I was going through my anger stage of divorce so I felt like we were kindrid spirits. My sister offered up Snape. So right on. And she suggested Oliver from Rachel Caine's Morganville series. Oliver is a shit. There's really  no other way to put it. Caine has allowed his appearance to evolve over the series. Picture hippy middle aged man, then suave warrior. I'm not sure what he looks like anymore.

Thursday, April 11, 2013

Sass, Friendship, Redemption, and a Bit of Gore! robgirlbooks' Review of Blood Fugue by E.J. Wesley

Blood Fugue
by E.J. Wesley
44 pages
I won this ebook novelette
4 STARS

Jenny does her best to be your typical hostile gaming hermit. Then she opens a seemingly innocuous email. Suddenly she has a living grandfather she believed long dead, commits to doing a favor that involves bullets, and discovers a destiny that will test her tendency to push people away.

I'm so happy I won this novelette! E.J. Wesley created the best protagonist in Jenny. She's rude, she's nearly six feet tall, and she sports a purple Mohawk. I did not fall in love with Jenny from the start, yet I loved reading from her perspective. Through her interactions with Marshal, her pushy best friend, and her mysterious resurrected grandfather, I discovered a girl I wish I knew in real life. She'd be the coolest friend. I can't forget to mention the setting. I've read books set in Texas before and yet I never felt like my car broke down there and forced me to spend my entire vacation waiting for it to be fixed. Between Jenny's rudeness and the Texas backdrop, I fell into this story with zeal. If you're in the mood for an edgy paranormal read or love a strong female protagonist who knows how to handle guns get this book!

My new thing has been requesting mini-interviews from the authors of books I've fallen in love with. Thank you, E.J. Wesley, for taking the time to answer my questions.

You created the toughest chick ever in Jenny. I half expected her to grab herself and spit. How did you come up with a main character like her? I mean, we're talking purple Mohawk.
I think Jenny might view herself as just a TOUCH more ladylike than that—but probably just by a little. Lol She’s had a lot of heartache in her young life. She has lost both parents, and all of her grandparents by her early 20s. As they probably would anyone, these experiences have left her feeling isolated and alone. Rather than having that manifest in her character as vulnerability—which unfortunately isn’t all that uncommon with many of the female protagonists I’ve read—I wanted her to take it the other direction. She has certainly built walls to protect herself from more hurt, and her walls are more brick than glass.

I love the best friend. Will there be a solo story from Marshal's POV?
Marshal gets a lot of love from readers! I think that’s because I never really wrote him with the intention of him being a sidekick. I’ve always viewed him as Jenny’s other half, and I think she is probably his. Together they make a whole person/character. Basically, it’s hard for me to even imagine what Jenny would be like without him, and I think readers feel the same. While I haven’t really considered giving him his own adventure up to this point, I can definitely say he will continue to be a very important part of the series. We’ll learn lots more about him in coming ‘episodes’ and maybe even explore the limits of he and Jenny’s friendship a little.

Texas serves as the backdrop in your novelettes. What other settings are you dying to create for your main characters?
Everything (through book 3) has taken place in a very rural Texas setting. I don’t have immediate plans to take the series out of Texas, but you never know. (The idea of Jenny and Marshal traipsing around Manhattan IS pretty hilarious. ) However, we’re definitely going to explore some other locations within the state. Living here, I can tell you that Texas is like its own country—it’s that large, and there’s that much diversity in terms of culture and landscape. In the short term, I’ll just say that Jenny is going to be making a trip to a very large Texas city, very soon.

I can't wait to read Dark Prelude (Moonsongs book 3), but I want more. Will we get a novel?
I’ve definitely considered it. I love the characters so much already, and I think there’s plenty to explore in the Moonsongs universe. However, I also feel like part of the fun with these stories is letting them unfold in bite-sized portions. Realizing that readers are anxious for the next episode, I’m working hard toward decreasing the time between publication for the next batch (books 4, 5, and 6) and beyond. I’ll probably kick that new publishing cycle off early this Fall.

If I’m being completely honest, these books were something of an experiment. I wasn’t 100% certain people would enjoy them, or ‘get’ the format. As a result, I think I’m still feeling out how to best implement them. That being said, I suppose if there were enough reader enthusiasm behind creating a full-length novel, I’d certainly give it some serious thought.

You have a wonderful blog, especially for anyone interested in creative ventures. Has your writer identity evolved into a blogger identity?
Thank you! You know, I’ve probably identified myself more as a blogger than a writer up until recently. That was never the intention, but it just kind of worked out that way. But that’s definitely changing some—it might take a while to get going, but once the publishing wheel gets to spinning, it’s hard to stop. That cuts into my blogging time for sure. So I’m trying to learn how to evolve my blog into this new phase of things, yet also still be a resource for the creative community you mentioned. I draw so much energy and knowledge from my fellow bloggers, artists, etc., and hope I can give a little of that back to them in the ways I know how.
 

I read and loved Witch's Nocturne (Moonsongs book 2). I will be posting that review soon.





Meanwhile, I already hurried over to Amazon and bought a copy of Dark Prelude (Moonsongs book 3). Can't beat the price. Can't wait for another Jenny and Marshal adventure! 

Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Think Out Loud [4] Embarrassing Moments

I decided to lighten things up since my last two posts were on the serious side.
Embarrassing Moments...I've had a lot of them. I can't possibly go through all of them, so I'm picking one in high school, one in college, and my wedding over a decade ago. This will be my family if they find out about this post: "Do you remember the time in Japan when you ran into the massive power pole?" Or "Didn't you get hit in the head with a crew boat?" So maybe I won't tell them about this.
 
I had a high school sweetheart like a lot of girls. One night we went to Blockbuster to rent a movie. We were talking about what we wanted before I wandered off. When I returned I slipped my arms around him from behind. "So what are we going to get?" "I don't know." Wrong voice completely. "You're not my boyfriend." "No I'm not." It took me a few more seconds to unfreeze and let go.
 
After I started taking Studio Art classes in college I didn't want to take anything else, especially Art History. I wanted to lose myself in paint or ink, not nod off in a dimly lit class as slides of early American architecture click away. One day my American Art History teacher gave me three tickets to the symphony. I was so touched. Then while my friends and I waited in line to get in, there he was! I hurried over to him. I meant to just do a little thank you wave, but there I was hugging him. Then I absolutely did not mean to kiss his cheek. But I did. It's like I couldn't stop myself. At the very last second I gave his wife standing next to him the wave I failed to use.
 
Okay, now for my wedding. We wrote our vows the morning of the wedding and each selected a poem for the other to read. I was the opposite of a Type-A bride. I should have read his pick all the way through, but the beginning sounded pretty. Then standing in front of our family and friends I see a word I've never seen before. I look at it for a few seconds, then lean toward the groom for him to help me out. "Bivouac." I might have given him a look that said you're a weirdo for picking a wedding poem that turned into some kind of Boy Scout cheer.
 
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Monday, April 8, 2013

April is Autism Awareness Month


Your little one doesn't talk, so this is what you hear from your loved ones. "Einstein didn't talk until he was five."
You can't believe his intense focus when he plays with his toys."He's going to be an engineer."
You repeat his name over and over again. "He's such a snob."
You finally reach out to a professional and ask a simple question. "He lines up all his toys. Is that normal?"
 
The answer? Most likely your first inquiry will be ignored. So ask again and again until you're heard. You'll be okay, I promise because I went through this. There is a silent grace to autism. No matter how hard you work to reach your child, no matter how much you cry over his future struggles, there will always be this beautiful untouchable part of his spirit that belongs to this strange puzzle of the mind, or the nervous system, or the ether of the soul. Who knows? But it will be okay.

Here are a few of my tricks of the trade.

During my son's nonverbal years, he loved his shows. We had a stack of DVD's he'd throw fits in front of until I guessed the right one. I took the DVD's out and put them in a Case Logic. Next I taped the empty DVD cases shut and placed them on a shelf he could easily access. Here's the hard part. I had to stretch my patience and ability to sit back and not jump in to solve the problem. We started small. All Will needed to do was indicate somehow which show he wanted. We moved on to pointing his finger. I showed him over and over what I wanted, then played the role of cheerleader for even the smallest step in the right direction. We went from slapping the cases to pointing at them to grunting sounds to saying "want" to making word combinations. Maybe you won't reach the words part, but don't discount sign language, which you can add after the pointing stage. (pointing is a huge deal, so don't give up on that)

Winter time was a nightmare with my son because he refused to wear his coat. The fits were insane! So here's what I came up with and for whatever reason it worked like a dream. "One arm, two arms." Can you believe it? Just that line in a singsongy voice as you hold the coat up for him to slip one arm in, then the other. I'm telling you it's magic. It works with pants and shoes too! "One leg, two legs." "One foot, two feet."

Reading. Goodness, this is tough. My son has an amazing memory; the words free float in his mind instead of him putting them together to create concepts and connections. I took his favorite story books (Cars, Scooby, Bob the Builder...) and wrote little captions on the pages using words he knew and referring to the pictures displayed. "Do you see the moon?" Keep it simple and stick to your captions when you read the books. Make sure to throw in questions so you have a better chance at getting a response from him.

Stimming. Yikes! We lived in a house with a galley kitchen through his toddler years. I ran that boy into the ground. "I'm gonna get you" is universal for all abilities. We laughed and ran. I wore him out maybe five or six times in the thousands of laps. Only thing with this trick, which helped greatly at centering him and calming him down for the rest of the day, was he went through a smacking phase. I do not like to be smacked. Make sure you quickly address that before it becomes ingrained. Life is too hard to throw hitting on top of it.

If you have any tricks you want to share, please do. Will is closing in on eleven and he acts like a petulant teen already. We struggle with homework and class participation. He has bouts of mimicking (echolalia) that usually have to run its course until he's calm enough to take a breath and be quiet for a bit. Do you have a story to share?
Will at the Special Olympics. He tried to make the runners even by slowing down. He wanted everyone to win. He really is so neato!

I'm not good at praying

Reef1309 - Flickr - NOAA Photo Library
My thoughts are with my loved ones on Guam who read online and see on the news the drama unfolding surrounding North Korea. On Facebook, I read comments about being scared, wishing for more information, praying for this all to go away. My mom said, "I cry when I see the news stories on the North Korean threats." Guam sits right there in the South Pacific. During World War II, right after Pearl Harbor was attacked, it was invaded by Japan. When the US freed the island two and half years later, the generation of Chamorros who survived were beyond proud to call themselves Americans. Guam was declared a US Territory and citizenship was granted. The small island has gone through growing pains and identity shifts over the years. It suffered along with Hawaii when the drug Ice hit the streets hard. It was devastated when the Japanese market crashed back in 1989. It's a tourist hub. It's hot and sticky. It's beautiful. It's where I grew up.

Photo by David Burdick. (NOAA Photo Library: reef1309) [CC-BY-2.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/2.0) or Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

Saturday, April 6, 2013

My Vacation!

I went to Colorado this week. Yep, I saw beautiful mountains, deer, elk, buffalo, buffalo chips (poo), a black bear, and every shade of brown under the sun. I set out on this vacation to snow ski. I've always wanted to, but figured it was one of those things a clumsy girl like me should never do. I did it! Sure I stayed on the bunny hill the entire time and my dad (a real ski person) kept telling me to stop looking at my skis and my four year old zipped past me without falling on his rump once. The kid even lifted one leg then the other. Showboat! I fell twice at the very beginning. I felt unsteady and my brain automatically sent the message to fall good and proper. I excel at falling the right way to minimize injury. You learn that nifty trait after hundreds of stitches, a handful of concussions, a few broken bones...you get the picture. Once I realized the point was to find balance, I stopped throwing myself down on the slush. I loved it. I sucked at it. I wanted to chuck my snow boots off the mountain, or maybe chuck them at my dad. I'm happy to be back in the land of rain and all-over-green. Maybe I'll try skiing again, or maybe it's time to tackle another adventure wish list...zip line baby!


Monday, April 1, 2013

Upcoming reads!

A storm is coming. My public library has this wonderful feature, "suggest a purchase." Goodness, do I suggest. When/if they purchase your submitted request, the book automatically lands on your wait list. It's so awesome! Only thing, the library is stalled because I have close to a dozen books sitting there with me being the first in line and they could all come in at once! It's hard to choose another book with a list that size looming. What's a girl to do? Duh, my ereader is packed with exciting reads. The first three I won and I'm so excited to dive into those. The Rise of Nine takes a certain mood because it's sci-fi, it's in first person present tense, and there are multiple POV's (not to mention the author's name is based on the storyline, which is odd).